LETTER TO KENYAN SUGARDADDYS

Dear Sugar daddies (SDs),
I hope this finds you well. More and more of you are springing up everywhere which really is a good thing. There more sugar babies (SBs) than the dads. At the end of the day, at least each sugar baby will have a man.
But I’ve come to realize that many of you do not quite comprehend their roles. I believe that an SD’s main role is to improve the life of his side dish; by this I mean in term of finances. You should be wealthy and willing to spoil your SB. I’m not saying you need to own a palace, private jet, or whatever; I’m realistic, we are in Kenya (although if you do, contact me ASAP ;)). At least give your SB a monthly allowance of 10-20k, whatever you agreed on, or shopping money for her to get better clothes and shoes than she can afford on her own, or take her on a trip to the Mara or the coast or just a romantic dinner at an uptown restaurant, or buy her that really nice silver necklace.. Get the flow??
The second role is to increase an SB’s knowledge. You don’t need to have mastered or be a PHD holder, but at least have the ability to instill wisdom you’ve gained over the years; be it tips to a successful business or political career, or simply how to make smart investments.
Another important SD role, especially for me, is having connections. This way, I’ll be sure that I can stand on my own after we part ways. Personally, I wouldn’t imagine spending months or years living comfortably thanks to an SD, but after we part ways my life suddenly takes an 180 degree turn. Then I have to start all over again. With connections, as an SB, I can work my way up in my career and will forever be grateful to that SD who gave me the opportunity. Some men worry about how they’ll explain knowing a very young beautiful lady you met on a dating site yet you are married. Ts all about creativity. Contact me, I give you a tip or two.
It is also important that you as a SD keep your word. Some of us hold on to promises, I’m guilty as charged. If you promised to give monthly allowance, please stick to that. If you promised to pay my rent, please do that monthly for the period we are together because at the beginning of every month I’ll be expecting rent cash from you.
I’ve also come to note that every SD expects sex to be on the table. Some men do not even bother to ask at the beginning then later on start to push it on an SB. I understand the main reason most men seek a side dish is because they are sexually starved at home. I kindly request all you SDs to bring up the topic about sex at the beginning. It is not purely an SB’s role to ask. If the lady says no, please leave if you know very well that you are not ok with that. It will save you trouble down the road.
Till next time.
Yours sincerely,
Kenyan Suagarbaby.

WHERE IS YOU GENUINE SUGAR DADDY??

Earlier this month I told Mr. Computers of a gadget I have been dying to purchase. He said he would give me the money to buy it and asked me the cost. He went ahead to suggest that I get it insured after purchase since it is an expensive gadget in case anything happened. Told him I’ll consider doing so though the thought has never occurred to me.
Today I reminded him about it since he hadn’t told me when to expect the money. He said I wait till end month. I was really disappointed because I was expecting it to be sooner than that. I had even told him I plan to have the gadget before end month.
This is where I ask, where is you genuine sugar daddy? A genuinely wealthy SD.. I do not possess the quality of patience and would prefer an SD who can provide me the cash when I need it. I thought the moment an SD chooses his SB, he approximates how much he might be needed to spend, that way he can provide the money when it is needed. Or am I wrong?

MR. ROMANTIC

This one did not start well. He kept me waiting for so long. I should have left the minute I considered doing so but he talked me into waiting for him because he was stuck in traffic. We finally met 75min after the scheduled time.
We did coffee and got to know each other. He has not been in a sugar relationship and he did not seem to know exactly what is expected of him although he asked what I’m looking for in a mature man.
Long story short, I hated that he kept me waiting as much as I enjoyed his company. He is looking for an emotional connection, and doesn’t seem to want to commit to footing bills. He talked of getting out of town for a night or two; I would like that but what’s the point of having a sugar dad who will take me on a vacation with him and not pay my rent? I don’t want to relax for a day then come back to find my problems unsolved.
He’s out.

KENYAN ONLINE SUGAR DATING SERVICES

I ended up trying out the Kenyan online dating services where you are required to pay sh400-500 for a hook up. Curiosity got the better part of me. I picked out one that appeared to have been in the business for some time; actually they claimed to be running the business for 4yrs now. They had a face book page and a Blog with quite a number of potentials to choose from. By the time I was at entries for Feb this year, I had had enough of looking around and knew who I wanted.
I had to make a mobile transfer of sh400, then another sh50 for withdrawal, SMH! Later I was sent for a messaging talking of how they don’t have business permits because apparently permits of such kind in Kenya do not exist but their business is genuine and a hook up is guaranteed. So these guys rarely pick calls, I’m not sure why. The next day I got the phone number for the man I wanted, tried calling but it sounded like I have been blocked. Imagine! I tried reversing the transfer but it was a bit too late for that. Today I realized they have pulled down their fan page and I couldn’t find their Blog.
So yea, I do not trust those people. My calls have been going unanswered for the past couple of days, as well as my texts and email. Unless someone proves me wrong, I advise against those online services. Stick to those Kenyan sites that are free.
Share your experience if you have tried such a service..

Slow Beginnings

I have been setting up accounts on various sugar dating sites, but nothing concrete so far. Most of the men i have been chatting with sound kinda shady, some have really shady photos.I also don’t understand how a 20sth year old man is signing up as a sugar daddy! Really?? Unless you are a special case but those I have seen do not pass as a special case, at all.

Seems the big names in the online sugar dating industry don’t have a base as such in Kenya. That’s sad. The trend here is creating a page, or a blog then charging people for hookups, otherwise you send your photo to be displayed and wait for that call. I wonder if you get charged for that.. Honestly, I don’t trust these sort of arrangement. I’ve tried one and it is not looking good. The lady doesn’t pick calls, I have no idea why, so it’s constantly back and forth messaging. AAAaargh!

Anyway, I am not losing hope. The search is still on.