2 weeks later…

A lot has happened since I last posted. Been working very hard to ignore all those annoying emails from CL, thankfully they have reduced. Good news, I got my first white man. I was super excited, never been with one before. Until, sadly, I saw on the news about a student who had been murdered…I’ll talk about that afterwards.

So, I’ll just go with his initial, M. He’s 49yrs, single, currently posted in Nairobi,  for work. We met on CL, I replied to his post and since then the conversation has been flowing. I met him last Fri for dinner which could not at all have gone any better. I have to admit I was totally nervous but he made me comfortable, cracking a few jokes here and there, and at the end of the night i was feeling bad parting ways, though I didn’t wan to go to his place just yet. Anyway we got to agree on the terms of the arrangement, although he’s in and out of the country a lot, meaning he could be gone for a month or two. I have to still keep on the sugar search to cover for such situations. I must have appeared a bit unsure of myself because he suggested I take time to figure out if I want to keep him as my SD or not. I do like him as a friend, that’s really important to me and he’s smart and warm. We should be meeting next week, if he won’t be flying out.

About the trip with Mr. Random, that’s happening this week, actually from tomorrow. And I haven’t packed! It’s been a crazy Tuesday for me but I’ll do so in an hour. We’ll be spending two nights together at the coast, and not have sex. I hope I’ll be able to stand firm on my ground, ha ha (ts been a while since…) Oh God! Help me! Despite all, I can’t wait for tomorrow.

The student who was murdered, you can read it here. So sad. For a brief moment it had me doubting about being with M but I figured it’s all about your sense of judgement, trusting your instincts, and so on.. It’s really important to also know when to walk out or run away from an arrangement. Your safety and well-being is very essential.

My normal life as a student cum attache has been busy, as usual. Cant wait for the holiday in about 3 weeks. Luckily for me my boss doesn’t keep up with my everyday schedule so I didn’t need to send an email requesting for leave for the next three days, as long as I finish all my tasks before the set deadlines. And I think my boss is kind of hitting on me. Lately, he’s been a bit too suggestive though I chose to ignore that. I have no test scheduled, so I’m also in the clear on school matters. I’m back on Friday evening and somehow I got to attend my friend’s party, can’t afford to miss it.

Better days ahead!!

CRAIGSLIST UPDATE

I finally got to post my Ad and already responses are flowing in, starting with insults! Gosh! People are so mean on the internet. I can’t even post that email here, ts so hurting. But I got over it, I mean, this is someone i don’t know, will probably never get to know  him, so why the hell should I give two sh*ts about him.! Another one keeps pestering me asking why I specifically want men over 40yrs. I don’t bother to reply.

It is interesting how men below 40 still reply to my Ad, yet I’ve clearly stated, “Only men over 40”  ha ha. Are people blind or they think I might just change my mind.. No idea! Also, I’m getting offers for ONS kind of arrangement, and again, I’ve clearly stated I don’t do such. An expatriate actually suggested that I should try it out and went ahead to ask for my nudes, all in one sentence!

The internet is full of crazy people, which is a pain in the wrong places but it becomes hilarious when you don’t take internet life too seriously. So someone had the time and energy to send me an insulting email, a couple of hours after i posted my Ad, the other has no work to do other than keep pestering me. Theses people have so much time on their hands, I’m actually very jealous!!

Despite all that there are still 3..4 responses to go by. I’m not too positive about them but I’m also responding to other Ads that are worth a try. Anyway, it seems CL is mostly for getting paid for sex, as much as men say that if they wanted a prostitute, they would go out to the streets, but i don’t see the difference with what they are asking for on CL, apart from the fact that they are taking prostitution online. Oh well, who am I to judge.

Sugar search

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NOT MUCH…

I haven’t posted in a while, because there hasn’t been much to share. Mr. Random has been keeping my mind occupied, but as a friend. I decided to keep it at that, so no sugar dating between me and him. And definitely, he has no idea that I’m an SB. I do not plan to tell him.

On the sugar search, ts been really quiet. Though I came across an article; Confessions of a Craigslist sugarbaby, and I have decided to actually try Craigslist. I checked it out and seems it is popular locally. I tried to post an ad yesterday but looks like there’s something I’m doing wrong because it gets flagged for removal every time. Hopefully I can figure it out soon. For now, I’m replying to ads that appear to be worth a try. I must admit, some people are quite queer.!

Last week a friend of mine suggested that she should probably get an SD to solve her financial issues. I just replied with a laugh and brushed it off but I didn’t tell her that I’m actually doing the whole sugar dating scene, I can’t (there are those friends you are just not sure about how they would take it if they knew). Oddly, it felt like she knew something and that she was trying to test whether I would come out. There’s a possibility she would have seen Mr. Random and I together, but if so, I would make arrangement for her to meet him just so I can prove we are just friends and that I don’t do sugar. Maybe, I’m just being paranoid or thinking too much into it.

Before I forget, Mr. Random suggested we take a trip together. I could really use a vacation but the thing is, I’m I up for 2-3 nights alone with Mr. Random???? I’m yet to find out!